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Since my husband (32M) told me (33F) he doesn’t believe I was raped by two guys when I was a teenager, I haven’t felt the same the way about him. Should I leave or am I making to big of deal about being hurt?

When I was a teen, before I met my husband, I was raped by someone I considered a friend and his friend. I never told anyone. I just went home, took a shower, and never saw them again. Relationship Advice Reddit

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I met my husband 3 years later when I was 19. He told me about how his ex-girlfriend was raped, and he was angry that it happened to her. It seemed like he despised any guy who could do that to a girl. So against my better judgement, I told him very briefly about what happened to me. This was about 12 years ago. Since then he’s made comments about how I was in a threesome with two guys and asks questions and implies that I enjoyed it.

Then about a year ago I asked him if he believed I was raped or not because of the things he was saying. He said, “Well I don’t know the guys that were involved, and you haven’t gone into detail so I can’t say you were.”

So I went into detail about them getting me out on a boat at 6am under a false pretence, to fight back, and having my head held under water, to all the detail of the actual act of it, sorry I can’t go into here, it still hurts too much. But anyways after I tell him all the details he was like, “Yeah, so you will have a threesome with them but not me?” Relationship Advice Reddit

I haven’t felt the same about him since. Am I just hurt and the feeling of being in love and safe with him come back? Or should I leave?

ANSWER

This is beyond troubling. I’d advise any woman to stay the hell away from someone like your husband. I don’t think you’re taking it seriously enough and you should be figuring out a way out.

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